When we got to the subway station, I told him to give me back my keys. I was out the door in a shot with him on my heels.
I nearly tackled the waitress (“We need our check! Now!”). This wasn’t a let’s-try-again reunion dinner It was our last supper. This candlelit dinner had seemed to be to signal things were on the upswing. Know when to walk away.When my boyfriend told me, just shy of our one-year anniversary, that he didn’t want a girlfriend anymore, I was still digesting my savory pork belly dish and $12 cocktail. Know that someone who truly loves you would never want to hurt you, would never want to see you cry or be the cause of those tears. Related: Emotional Vampires: Who are they in Your Life? – Judith Orloff You cannot stop them treating people the way they do but you can stop them treating you in this way. You are gaining strength away from these dysfunctional individuals. Losing the narcissist in your life is not a loss, it’s a gain. Make sure you know that you are strong enough before you have any dealings with the narcissist. Likewise with the narcissist, just one conversation, letting your guard down can be enough for you to let the narcissist back into to your life. Some alcoholics may be alcohol free for years and just one drink will see them back in their pit of despair. The narcissist was our drug and when we need to become clean we have got to stay away from the drugs or the alcohol. No contact has often been described as removing the drugs away from the addict or the alcohol from the alcoholic. When you are on the receiving end of the silent treatment your very existence is not recognised by your abuser. The silent treatment is a passive aggressive form of emotional abuse and has been described as mental murder. It takes so very little to ignite their fuse. The narcissist’s ego is very easily upset. Their contempt for you is blatantly obvious. Related: Are You Dating an Emotional Predator? – Signs of Narcissists, Sociopaths and PsychopathsĪny attempt to resolve the situation by discussion is thwarted. Most of the time, the victim has no idea why they are being treated in this despicable manner. Have you done something to deserve it? Probably not. It is a means employed by these disordered individuals of showing their displeasure or disapproval. Remember that these disordered personalities are all about power and control. When a narcissist gives us the silent treatment they are doing so as a punishment, to invoke fear, obligation, guilt or remorse.
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